IN MOURNING
by the author’s depictions of her mother holding, praising, and arguing with her\u003B working as an ER nurse\u003B or volunteering at the dog shelter. Throughout, the memoir avoids sentimentality as it depicts destabilizing loss (“The only times that came to mind were when we fought. Something we did a ton of”) and tells a story that lingers long after the final page."

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In Mourning, a memoir for readers 12 to 18, sits with the death of a mother without smoothing over the messier parts of grief. The mother at its center was an ER nurse who also volunteered at a dog s...
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In Mourning, a memoir for readers 12 to 18, sits with the death of a mother without smoothing over the messier parts of grief. The mother at its center was an ER nurse who also volunteered at a dog shelter, and the book keeps returning to ordinary scenes with her — being held, being praised, being argued with. One line sums up its honesty: "The only times that came to mind were when we fought. Something we did a ton of." That's an uncomfortable thing to admit about someone you've lost, and the book lets it stand rather than softening it.
It works because it refuses a tidy arc from sad to healed — anger, guilt, and love are allowed to sit in the same memory instead of getting sorted into neat stages. A teen who has lost a parent or close caregiver will likely recognize that particular mess: missing someone and still being irritated at them in memory. A teen who hasn't faced a loss like this gets something useful too, a sense of what a grieving friend might actually be carrying underneath the sympathy. Goodreads readers have rated it 4.52 out of 5 across 312 ratings — a strong signal this one lands with its intended teen audience.
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